Wednesday, March 7, 2012

Olive Branch

So sat night just passed my dad and my aunt threw my other aunt their baby sister a surprise birthday for her 50th birthday. For the most part it was a lot of fun to be out with my family. It;s been a long time since all of us were in one place at the same time and even longer since we have all been able to get along. lol Typical behaviour for most families.
    So some will remember the blog about Errol my father;s half brother who passed away. Anyhow his wife Paula was at the birthday party and quite drunk... or maybe she is just a natural floozy now i dunno ,, but anyhow i haven't spoken to this woman really since i was just a little toddler. Myself and her son Adam who is my cousin used to play together when we were both at my nanny stewarts. Since she passed away when i was 4 i never saw Adam again until high school, he remembered who i was but proceeded to put on airs and put his nose in the air.  I spoke to paula at the funeral to give my sympathy to her and i brushed off her adruptness then to grief at having just lost her husband whom she had been with for 30 + years. i can't expect anyone to be within their right state at that time.
so on saturday i spoke again with a smile and addressed her as Aunt to show some respect,again i was regarded like some sort of insect on her shoe, so i tried again with a do you remember me? it's been a lot of years i'm all grown up now and laughed. i got a simple yeah and a disgusted look again. Her whole additude towards me is baffling, even as far as to snub my father her late husband's brother, her behaviour was disgusting as far as i am concerned and i won;t be extending the olive branch again. see you at your own funeral next paula ciao

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